Monday, July 21, 2008

Small case debate about dating online

Small case debate about dating online

Many people against dating online and we saw that on TV in many countries issue;

- How you date someone in the cable or wireless?
- Why aren’t you dating someone real instead of the monitor!
- He could be a serial killer on the other line.
- That could be her fake photo and she could be a guy scamming you for money.
- And so on.

Yes, internet dating has some limitation but the prospect of reaching everywhere in every country is a new concept and thanks to the World Wide Web. Technology from US military or CIA since the ’60 and then released to us to make website from serious news of war to adult porn to dating online.

People who not open mind about dating online is understandable. Many people use dating online hunting for their new love or mistress even before they got divorced! The real purposes of dating site are plain and simple, but millions of people use those for any purposes are uncontrollable and it’s the nature of the web.

Dating online work and I have good experiences as well as met lots of success people who dated online.


WHY? Because we already checked out or dated people we had known from friends of friends, friends at work, neighbor near your house, club and bar. Maybe even include anyone we could spot as interesting at radius near your home or workplace and supermarket already.

If any people think online dating is weird then he/she probably dating someone not too far from her supermarket driving distant, LOL. Some people like me don’t have such luxury for many people I know work directly with internet 17 hours a day or a book author, magazine editor and many career that work from home which mean limited human contact and rely more on phone, fax, email.

Sometime, someone you’re looking for simply just live in a different zip code, so thinking I have to date someone near me to make sense is obsolete.

Online dating allow you to look up zip code anyway so if you want to date someone across 8000 miles or make sure he/she will live within your area, you can do so.

It’s just another choice!

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