Dating, Love and Commercialization!
Time changes, vocabulary changes, but we simply changes “please Mr. Postman” to “you’ve got mail”. All and all, we still can sing oldie song like “can’t buy my love by the Beatles” even some people prefer to sing “What love got to do with it by Tina Turner”.
I’m one of those people who are in dating for romance. I still love flirting, dinner and slowly getting to know someone and have those special feelings.
Asian or Russian girls dating a white man becomes so fashionable in some small area that people might assume, it’s the trend of the whole country which is not true. Many things I heard but I’m not sure neither could verify that it’s a true story or not. The frightening part for me is not what they did but it’s sound so commercialized, catalog brides sound like a shopping cart session in amazon.com instead of a dating web friendly community.
Where all the romances go?
Are we speed dating and no longer need passion and falling in love?
Love on the internet super highway not necessary mean, you need to run on a fast track, and a short cut! People pretty or not, handsome or not, we all get old and sex could be dull, plain as well as routine (try the 7 years itches, lol).
Romance, good feeling you cherish will last longer. You will hold on to that loving feeling of “loving someone” and “falling in love”, that feelings that give you that silly grin when you alone. The good mood that all your friends think you’re on drugs, lol.
Bride by mail for me is ok, acceptable but I personally will NOT want to be a bride by mail or being catalog for someone to choose me. Flirting online is the same as flirting in life and lacking of “choices” is not what I would bargain for. Dating community gives you that choices and it’s everyone choices not just yours’ to choose.
Dating online should NOT be about migration because a girl wants a permit to live in another country and also should not be that a man can provide such and such in trade of a younger desperate woman. All is ok though, if there’s a mutual feeling and some couple just get all the luck. I met many couples that actually make it work like magic and live happily ever after.
Just have it all and don’t leave out the romance. Dating online should be about reaching out and convenient. Dating site categorized people by age, race, location, zip code, and country already and that’s what database does, but don’t let yourself being catalog like merchandises.
Your choice!
What’s the hurry?
No one too old to date!
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Monday, July 21, 2008
"Just Because" (White guys and Asian girls) by Chris & Loren Toy
"Just Because" (White guys and Asian girls) by Chris & Loren Toy
Why do we only see white guys and Asian girls and it's hardly the other way around?
"Just Because" a song by concerned asian men
This song can change your mind and fall for asian man again... with a bit of humour!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mu61YBai_mM
This is a way to go, wow
Why do we only see white guys and Asian girls and it's hardly the other way around?
"Just Because" a song by concerned asian men
This song can change your mind and fall for asian man again... with a bit of humour!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mu61YBai_mM
This is a way to go, wow
Money scam online! More reason you should protect your private email, FUNNY true story!
Money scam online! More reason you should protect your private email... Funny true story.
So, I heard and got reported from quite a few members of “money scam”. Starting off from beautiful girls photo then sweet email and touch with money asking.
You’re smart so if you know then block the list. I rather you blocked them than suspend them and not because I agree that they should be able to ask for money.
I did suspend them anyway.
A true funny story:
A friend of mine use to communicate with a girl online (I don’t want to mention which nationality)… then he thought he was going to fall in love for she’s young and beautiful.
After long contact, she messaged him that she need “eye surgery money” or “she could go blind”… how sad?
He replied “My dear, you are so beautiful and I’m sure you can get by with one eye”.
LOL… so if you received money scam, please report me and don’t get so serious about it
So, I heard and got reported from quite a few members of “money scam”. Starting off from beautiful girls photo then sweet email and touch with money asking.
You’re smart so if you know then block the list. I rather you blocked them than suspend them and not because I agree that they should be able to ask for money.
I did suspend them anyway.
A true funny story:
A friend of mine use to communicate with a girl online (I don’t want to mention which nationality)… then he thought he was going to fall in love for she’s young and beautiful.
After long contact, she messaged him that she need “eye surgery money” or “she could go blind”… how sad?
He replied “My dear, you are so beautiful and I’m sure you can get by with one eye”.
LOL… so if you received money scam, please report me and don’t get so serious about it
Why Asian Girls Go For White Guys?
Why Asian Girls Go For White Guys?
This is a must see VIDEO
real, funny and see what they talk about, LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SI3lPLsbwjw
Ha Ha Ha
This is a must see VIDEO
real, funny and see what they talk about, LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SI3lPLsbwjw
Ha Ha Ha
Ten (10) turn off messages for dating online?
Ten (10) turn off messages for dating online?
Below is suggest NOT to do listed (not in priority order).
Turn Off 1
I’m coming to your area, will you come for drinks?
This is ok if it’s not the first message. If this is the first message then it’ real bad because I have no idea who you are and you can be a serial killer for all I know. If this message sent from white man to Asian woman, it’s really ugly because you assume the Asian women must be so crazy about white man already. This is the same as walking in a bar and not even introduce yourself but ask a girl out already!
If you do, women imagine you as a professional pick up girl from the bar and very self-loved.
Turn Off 2
“You’re beautiful will you marry me” or “You sound nice and I really want to get married and I have people who will arrange your visa”. This is sweet but hilarious. Dating online is not amazon.com and woman can’t be order for shipment courier. Of course, there are dating site that provide you with one way choosing bride and that’s always choices.
If you do, you sound like an old fashion guy who’s always the boss not a friend or a lover.
Turn Off 3
“I’m flying to…. Country and hope you can meet me at 3pm at ….. hotel”. He has the courtesy to tell me that I’m 1 of 5 girls he’s meeting for his vacation limit time for quickie wife shopping.
If you do, I‘d imagine you as a “Fast food GUY”.
Turn Off 4
“Too long message”. Surprisingly these sweet guys can really write and they wrote two to three A4 pages of message. Message includes dog, cat, family, kids, and marriage, divorced, work and so on covering from childbirth to present day biography. I never get pass half A4 page reading and gave up.
If you do, then you’re not a listener but a talker and in person, you must talk a lot. Women like men who listen, so don’t so do all the talking. Try to leave some mystery and subject for your next conversation (messages). What’s the hurry?
Turn Off 5
“Too short message”. This is most common so far in dating online. A short message of email me, chat with me, skype me on MSN. This is the same as walk pass a women at the bar and drop her a piece of paper with your phone number. It normally works if a woman does that.
If you do, you should be darn handsome or drop dead “Brad Pitt”.
Turn Off 6
“I’m rich”. There are so many ways to tell women that you’re successful without being so blunt. I couldn’t blame such response, for once I was just curious about type of guy I’m looking for by writing.
I’m looking for a men with REQUIRED “income over 150,000US$”, LOL.
I was wonder will I get any response for being such so rude and it’s not a sugardaddy website, lol.
There are responses;
- Real estate guyI’m a successful man (also attached photo of him and his Mercedez Benz)
- I.T. guyI make more than 150,000US$ and I like a woman who knows what she’s looking for
- Transport and BrokeringI’m secure and have my own business. You sound interesting.
- Artist/Photographer
We have so many things in common but I don’t make that much money
Guess, who I wrote back? LOL.
It’s the brokering and transport guy for he’s humble and he talking to me NOT telling me.
Turn Off 7
Mystery email “write me at MyEmail@!!hot%%^mail&dot*com”
When a man sent message with their email in the first message or write secrete code such as MyEmail@!!hot%%^mail&dot*com
First email communication with MOSS CODE? LOL.
May be it’s a computing binary code?
If he’s not taking time to talk to me, struggle to upgrade (on some site are free anyway), so will he’s be the type who’d take me to pan pizza instead of Italian restaurant?
I wonder what if a woman sent you messages with “write me at MyEmail@!!hot%%^mail&dot*com”... What will you think of her?
Will you think she’s cheap with no style? If so, same apply to you. If you think it’s charming then go ahead save that few bucks.
I disagree with give out my personal email for bad experienced. I’d day you can do that (of course, you can) only when you’re sure about the other person you’re emailing too.
Turn Off 8
Show off too much. Man who achieves a lot can show off more but it’s the way you show it. I mean, a man photo with his fancy car is ok. The things that I found turn off is when a men sent me his photo with giant screen TV!
Why? It’s saying to me that he’s an indoor guy and a couch potato with beer and remote control. If that’s his proud asset then I’m in big trouble, lol.
On the contrary, men showing off their upper torso with no cloth, no furniture is always a turn off. He’s sure an outdoor guy.
Showing off your photos on a travel is always a plus for most women loves to see places and by seeing those photos, they already drift away with going there with you.
Turn Off 9
Rude! Some men start to write sarcastic message when received no reply. This only shows he’s quick tempered and has no patient.
Remember, patient is a real virtue!
Turn Off 10
Too humble! I would suggest do not write to women and put you down on weight, images, look, or height. Women like strong, secure and stable guy and you’re showing the weak side. What if you got message from a women and she said “I’m a bit short and fat but I want to get to know you”. Maybe, she’s not that bad looking, but her attitude is so negative and what an insecure person, right?
These are my personal opinion as a woman who date online and date offline a lot with no bias. Most of my friends are more men than women and I’m writing this article same way, I would suggest my men buddies!
Have fun dating online and remember writing a woman online dating is the same as going to the bar and try to talk to girls face to face. Just because it’s online, what you write still tells a lot about who you are.
When man messages to a woman on dating site is the same as men talking to women at the bar. Once you said it, it’s who you are even faceless and nameless on the cyber world.
Before I started my own dating site, I participated in a few dating site to check out how things work and many men messages me not knowing or don’t care what they are writing.
Dating online is nearly the same approach as walk to a girl at the bar. Either you’re success with the pick up or flopped!
Below is suggest NOT to do listed (not in priority order).
Turn Off 1
I’m coming to your area, will you come for drinks?
This is ok if it’s not the first message. If this is the first message then it’ real bad because I have no idea who you are and you can be a serial killer for all I know. If this message sent from white man to Asian woman, it’s really ugly because you assume the Asian women must be so crazy about white man already. This is the same as walking in a bar and not even introduce yourself but ask a girl out already!
If you do, women imagine you as a professional pick up girl from the bar and very self-loved.
Turn Off 2
“You’re beautiful will you marry me” or “You sound nice and I really want to get married and I have people who will arrange your visa”. This is sweet but hilarious. Dating online is not amazon.com and woman can’t be order for shipment courier. Of course, there are dating site that provide you with one way choosing bride and that’s always choices.
If you do, you sound like an old fashion guy who’s always the boss not a friend or a lover.
Turn Off 3
“I’m flying to…. Country and hope you can meet me at 3pm at ….. hotel”. He has the courtesy to tell me that I’m 1 of 5 girls he’s meeting for his vacation limit time for quickie wife shopping.
If you do, I‘d imagine you as a “Fast food GUY”.
Turn Off 4
“Too long message”. Surprisingly these sweet guys can really write and they wrote two to three A4 pages of message. Message includes dog, cat, family, kids, and marriage, divorced, work and so on covering from childbirth to present day biography. I never get pass half A4 page reading and gave up.
If you do, then you’re not a listener but a talker and in person, you must talk a lot. Women like men who listen, so don’t so do all the talking. Try to leave some mystery and subject for your next conversation (messages). What’s the hurry?
Turn Off 5
“Too short message”. This is most common so far in dating online. A short message of email me, chat with me, skype me on MSN. This is the same as walk pass a women at the bar and drop her a piece of paper with your phone number. It normally works if a woman does that.
If you do, you should be darn handsome or drop dead “Brad Pitt”.
Turn Off 6
“I’m rich”. There are so many ways to tell women that you’re successful without being so blunt. I couldn’t blame such response, for once I was just curious about type of guy I’m looking for by writing.
I’m looking for a men with REQUIRED “income over 150,000US$”, LOL.
I was wonder will I get any response for being such so rude and it’s not a sugardaddy website, lol.
There are responses;
- Real estate guyI’m a successful man (also attached photo of him and his Mercedez Benz)
- I.T. guyI make more than 150,000US$ and I like a woman who knows what she’s looking for
- Transport and BrokeringI’m secure and have my own business. You sound interesting.
- Artist/Photographer
We have so many things in common but I don’t make that much money
Guess, who I wrote back? LOL.
It’s the brokering and transport guy for he’s humble and he talking to me NOT telling me.
Turn Off 7
Mystery email “write me at MyEmail@!!hot%%^mail&dot*com”
When a man sent message with their email in the first message or write secrete code such as MyEmail@!!hot%%^mail&dot*com
First email communication with MOSS CODE? LOL.
May be it’s a computing binary code?
If he’s not taking time to talk to me, struggle to upgrade (on some site are free anyway), so will he’s be the type who’d take me to pan pizza instead of Italian restaurant?
I wonder what if a woman sent you messages with “write me at MyEmail@!!hot%%^mail&dot*com”... What will you think of her?
Will you think she’s cheap with no style? If so, same apply to you. If you think it’s charming then go ahead save that few bucks.
I disagree with give out my personal email for bad experienced. I’d day you can do that (of course, you can) only when you’re sure about the other person you’re emailing too.
Turn Off 8
Show off too much. Man who achieves a lot can show off more but it’s the way you show it. I mean, a man photo with his fancy car is ok. The things that I found turn off is when a men sent me his photo with giant screen TV!
Why? It’s saying to me that he’s an indoor guy and a couch potato with beer and remote control. If that’s his proud asset then I’m in big trouble, lol.
On the contrary, men showing off their upper torso with no cloth, no furniture is always a turn off. He’s sure an outdoor guy.
Showing off your photos on a travel is always a plus for most women loves to see places and by seeing those photos, they already drift away with going there with you.
Turn Off 9
Rude! Some men start to write sarcastic message when received no reply. This only shows he’s quick tempered and has no patient.
Remember, patient is a real virtue!
Turn Off 10
Too humble! I would suggest do not write to women and put you down on weight, images, look, or height. Women like strong, secure and stable guy and you’re showing the weak side. What if you got message from a women and she said “I’m a bit short and fat but I want to get to know you”. Maybe, she’s not that bad looking, but her attitude is so negative and what an insecure person, right?
These are my personal opinion as a woman who date online and date offline a lot with no bias. Most of my friends are more men than women and I’m writing this article same way, I would suggest my men buddies!
Have fun dating online and remember writing a woman online dating is the same as going to the bar and try to talk to girls face to face. Just because it’s online, what you write still tells a lot about who you are.
Protect your private email on dating site (any sites) and why?
Protect your private email on dating site (any sites) and why?
Once you know someone from online dating and start to give away your private email then it is fine.
I always say meet people online is the same as meet people in the bar so you won’t tell a stranger where you live (home address) so why should you give away your email (email address).
- You are exposing your email to junk robots email scanner? When you are posting your email for public to see (save some bucks) then both public (non member), and members (all members), and also email scanner junk robot can easily collect your email for spamming or spoofing as well.
- You could get harassment you didn’t want in the first place deliver to your private email inbox and that could be very UNWANTED.
- You might get more MONEY scam from Nigeria as well as Paypal fake mail sent to you. (Even I received them all the time).
Real Example
sample 1
This person is a scammer.always sending messages to people on here..asking for money..she is not real too.please try and deal with her or else she will cause danger to the people on here.Thanks..
sample 2
he wrote me fuck you just bec i wanted to see his face on cam and he showed me a black out cam..i dont like this kind of person..i think he is a scammer..he wanted me to send money to agencies he will refer me to apply..i said i dont need to apply to agencies..if there is a direct hire then i go..but then i dont need it anyway
sample 3
This person is scamming us men. She wrote me wonderful letters, and sent me beautiful pictures of herself, then started asking me to send her money so she can keep her correspondance with me. When I didn't respond, she wrote back and asked for money again. I looked up the first and last name that she gave me, and a whole bunch of red flags came up. Alias names, 3 or 4 different addresses. I hope this helps to keep this site for those of us who genuinely want to meet someone to share their life with, not just to be conned. Thanks
sample 4
revealing herself like a pornstar and a prostitute
sample 5
sending of suspicious and false emails. Abuse of the site. sending information with criminal intentions and motive
sample 6
This is just another of the scams and cam girls on your site.
sample 7
below is "her" e-mail...typical scammer. Hello dear, After several enquiries from the foreign trade office of our Chambers of Commerce and Industry, I decided to contact you directly. Please, I need your guidelines and assistance in making some business investments in your country within the next few weeks. Kindly take out a moment of your very busy schedule today to reply my email for more details and send me any list of viable investments currently available in your country for my consideration. Reply direct to my email (JaneDoe@yahoo.com) Regards, Ms Jane Doe
Cruising and dating online is fun but “come on” people, don’t make yourself venerable in the WEB!
Remember, you can report abuse to any site webmaster or just BLOCK that users from being able to contact you.
We want to make dating site safe but surely no webmaster can track all members, so please report abuse or suspicious members. All dating websites face same problem, this is the same for all of us.
Once you know someone from online dating and start to give away your private email then it is fine.I always say meet people online is the same as meet people in the bar so you won’t tell a stranger where you live (home address) so why should you give away your email (email address).
- You are exposing your email to junk robots email scanner? When you are posting your email for public to see (save some bucks) then both public (non member), and members (all members), and also email scanner junk robot can easily collect your email for spamming or spoofing as well.
- You could get harassment you didn’t want in the first place deliver to your private email inbox and that could be very UNWANTED.
- You might get more MONEY scam from Nigeria as well as Paypal fake mail sent to you. (Even I received them all the time).
Real Example
sample 1
This person is a scammer.always sending messages to people on here..asking for money..she is not real too.please try and deal with her or else she will cause danger to the people on here.Thanks..
sample 2
he wrote me fuck you just bec i wanted to see his face on cam and he showed me a black out cam..i dont like this kind of person..i think he is a scammer..he wanted me to send money to agencies he will refer me to apply..i said i dont need to apply to agencies..if there is a direct hire then i go..but then i dont need it anyway
sample 3
This person is scamming us men. She wrote me wonderful letters, and sent me beautiful pictures of herself, then started asking me to send her money so she can keep her correspondance with me. When I didn't respond, she wrote back and asked for money again. I looked up the first and last name that she gave me, and a whole bunch of red flags came up. Alias names, 3 or 4 different addresses. I hope this helps to keep this site for those of us who genuinely want to meet someone to share their life with, not just to be conned. Thanks
sample 4
revealing herself like a pornstar and a prostitute
sample 5
sending of suspicious and false emails. Abuse of the site. sending information with criminal intentions and motive
sample 6
This is just another of the scams and cam girls on your site.
sample 7
below is "her" e-mail...typical scammer. Hello dear, After several enquiries from the foreign trade office of our Chambers of Commerce and Industry, I decided to contact you directly. Please, I need your guidelines and assistance in making some business investments in your country within the next few weeks. Kindly take out a moment of your very busy schedule today to reply my email for more details and send me any list of viable investments currently available in your country for my consideration. Reply direct to my email (JaneDoe@yahoo.com) Regards, Ms Jane Doe
Cruising and dating online is fun but “come on” people, don’t make yourself venerable in the WEB!
Remember, you can report abuse to any site webmaster or just BLOCK that users from being able to contact you.
We want to make dating site safe but surely no webmaster can track all members, so please report abuse or suspicious members. All dating websites face same problem, this is the same for all of us.
Why Thai woman like white man? Reason 1
Why Thai woman like white man? Reason 1
While white men mostly deal with obesity or heart disease, Thai men deal more with liver cancer or liver failure from drinking!
Thai men have many charms and over drinking is one that kills the rating.
This is imply to all THAI GOOD MEN but admit it, Thai is ranked on the top list for most drink nation (country) and heard that we are the 1st most drunk country in Asia!
Thai men love to drink and drink heavily. They even have a study “Patterns of drinking in Thai men” and hope to have a plan to “intervention program for excessive drinking in Thailand”.
- No wonder Top 10 millionaire in Thailand either silly energy drinks with super extra caffeine or beer, whiskey company
- No wonder USA television campaign don’t drink and drive to teenage while Thailand campaign aim on adult grown up to old Thai men
- No wonder USA slogan is “don’t drink and drive”white Thailand slogan is “don’t drive drunk” which pretty much mean you can drink and if not drunk, it’s ok to drive. Something wrong with Thai slogan for it should be "drink! don't drive") LOL
How much Thai loves to drink?
Let’s see, any occasion or party can NOT be without alcohol or that’s party has bad rating from their guess.
- Men enter monk hood…. Joy of good karma, cheer drinks
- Wedding… happy for the bride, sad for the groom, drunk again
- Funeral….. so sad… let’s have drinks
- New born baby… stack cans of beer along the wall of hospital window
- Get promote… celebration drinks
- Got fired…. So depress, must have drinks
- Lunch long break… ice, coke and a bottle of whiskey
- Dinner anyday….. ice, coke, and a bottle of whiskey
- Any PUBS, Bars for Thai people sell whiskey by THE BOOTLE not by GLASS! That’s tell you a lot of how much Thai drinks. They call it a member bottle!
I was a drinker once and earned reputation of “the alcohol devil”. I realized that friends meeting involved around drinking. My friend called from hospital drunk and his wife just had a baby, LOL!
Thai men drinks to death and I know a few people near me who died from over drinking in Thailand, my uncle and a friend.
This doesn’t mean white men don’t drink, but you can go to jail longer and go to court for drunk driver cost you more. German men known to drink a lot, but when I went to Germany, I was surprised that a friend who was so drunk with walk a night before will NOT drink at all for he has to drive the next day.
I think Thai people are very polite and discreet and drinking make them more open up and fun. It’s just hard for all of us to start having fun and know when to stop.
I still think drinking a bit of wine or alcohol is sexy and it’s aroma! Only not when you start to have alcohol breath and drunk like a skunk.
Why men need a handbook to date a Thai girl?
Why men need a handbook to date a Thai girl? 
Thailand has so many handbooks sell to foreigner for dating a Thai girl from talking talk vocabulary to culture and warning which I think hilarious.
Women is women “same same” despite different culture and language so just go with the flow. The irony is a friend who keeps buying these books keep dating the wrong type of girl while the one who didn’t buy any book, simply date any one he likes.
Most of the time, you see forum or web board so mean to Thai girl such as;
- All Thai girls are hooker
- My bargirl friends screw around
- My Thai bar girlfriend not honest with me
They deserved it for they want a Thai girlfriend in 3-7days visited and BUY ONE so why complaint? LOL.
Even bargirls can be good girls, but often they were loved as they leased so if they left too then can’t blame them. Many Thai bargirl known to leave bars and start a new life and become a good wife and a good mother.
If you want a GOOD THAI GIRL, then there are 29.5 millions good one to choose from for we figure there are half a million prostitute in Thailand so it’s always your choices.
Buying love or lease one is different and dating online is a long short not a quickie!
Women is women “same same” despite different culture and language so just go with the flow. The irony is a friend who keeps buying these books keep dating the wrong type of girl while the one who didn’t buy any book, simply date any one he likes.
Most of the time, you see forum or web board so mean to Thai girl such as;
- All Thai girls are hooker
- My bargirl friends screw around
- My Thai bar girlfriend not honest with me
They deserved it for they want a Thai girlfriend in 3-7days visited and BUY ONE so why complaint? LOL.
Even bargirls can be good girls, but often they were loved as they leased so if they left too then can’t blame them. Many Thai bargirl known to leave bars and start a new life and become a good wife and a good mother.
If you want a GOOD THAI GIRL, then there are 29.5 millions good one to choose from for we figure there are half a million prostitute in Thailand so it’s always your choices.
Buying love or lease one is different and dating online is a long short not a quickie!
When you know you’re in love?
When you know you’re in love?
Love symptom is easy to detect. Once you addicted to talk to someone on daily basis. Thinking of that person with a smile, that’s when you know.
I’m an I.T. geek so hardly leave my nest. Meeting someone online seems like a good way to go and not because I’m desperate. Despite the long distance and relationship we have, it is very cyber and a wire running in the fiber optic or wireless wave signal.
People might think the idea of online dating is weird and for loner but the fact is with the new way of life, sometime we email or text our own family member so why not dating online, right?
When you’re in love you will have that love hormone and it’s last for 10-12 months. You’ll grow and blossom.
Wonder if I want to be in love or I just like the feeling of “being in one”. It’s hard to say.
I didn’t date anyone for 2 years once and was very depress with work. Everyone told me I need a psychiatrist. One friend cured me with what he said and all he said was “You need to get laid”, LOL.
When you know it’s time to move on?
When you know it’s time to move on?
It’s easy but hard to call it end for being the one to say “it’s over”, “we should start seeing somebody else” is hard.
You know it’s over when
- You and your love start to pick different restaurant
- You and your love start to go to movies more with friends than each other
- When you stop laughing at his/her joke
- When his/her little things that used to be so cute is now start to be annoying
- When you’re not looking forward to spent time together anymore
- When you start to have biggest fight ever
Breaking up is hard to do for some and may not be for others. I’m a very philosophical person so breaking up for me is a transient. I cope with breaking up very well, while most of my friends are crying or whining. I would say they are more human that I am.
I’m a bit stone in that sense but facing the fact that we have to move on doesn’t mean it’s the end of the road.
I think, it’s a beginning of the new road so let’s see where the bus will take me, so go to NEXT STOP for you’ll never know who’ll be there. If you get lost, there’s always another bus or you can hitch hike a Mercedes, lol.
Be positive! After all, being alone is not all that bad at all.
That’s why they created cable with hundreds of channels, and you can always have 10 cats, LOL.
It’s easy but hard to call it end for being the one to say “it’s over”, “we should start seeing somebody else” is hard.
You know it’s over when
- You and your love start to pick different restaurant
- You and your love start to go to movies more with friends than each other
- When you stop laughing at his/her joke
- When his/her little things that used to be so cute is now start to be annoying
- When you’re not looking forward to spent time together anymore
- When you start to have biggest fight ever
Breaking up is hard to do for some and may not be for others. I’m a very philosophical person so breaking up for me is a transient. I cope with breaking up very well, while most of my friends are crying or whining. I would say they are more human that I am.
I’m a bit stone in that sense but facing the fact that we have to move on doesn’t mean it’s the end of the road.
I think, it’s a beginning of the new road so let’s see where the bus will take me, so go to NEXT STOP for you’ll never know who’ll be there. If you get lost, there’s always another bus or you can hitch hike a Mercedes, lol.
Be positive! After all, being alone is not all that bad at all.
That’s why they created cable with hundreds of channels, and you can always have 10 cats, LOL.
Thai girls need money joke?
Thai girls need money joke? 
I often seen forum, comment that Thai girls (also Russian girls) need money or always ask for money. This is funny also a discriminate thought.
Thai women are by half population of Thailand which is approximately 30 millions ladies and approximate prostitute by half a million so the rest of 29.5 millions is now affected by bad reputation.
Thai girls need money joke is true and false based on
- All girls (women) love money, who doesn’t?
- Thai make less money than foreigner.
- Thai culture is men pay and take care of their love one so this need money is This is not apply to farang or foreigner but assume you can provide more than thai men. Thai girl dating Thai men also expected to be taken care of. It’s in the culture not bad habits.
- Being able to “pay”, “take care of” things is not all about money, but Thai girl show off with pride when they are being taken care of. They referred to as “lucky” and “smart” while the one that never asked for anything condemned by friends and family as “cheap”. They are being valued by social expectation
- Unfortunately, it becomes a fashion and thinks this is what farang can provide.
If you love someone then this is not big of a deal. If you’re dating the wrong type of girl no matter Thai or not…it’s the money for honey, so you can’t complaint.
This music video parody is very funny but remember this song is dedicate to pattaya girl
Parody pattaya music video “Hello sexy man, I love you”
http://www.bangkokgirls.net/musicvideo.php?vid=e8ef7de81
and Pattaya Casablanca music video
http://www.bangkokgirls.net/musicvideo.php?vid=015102e3c
Thai women are by half population of Thailand which is approximately 30 millions ladies and approximate prostitute by half a million so the rest of 29.5 millions is now affected by bad reputation.
Thai girls need money joke is true and false based on
- All girls (women) love money, who doesn’t?
- Thai make less money than foreigner.
- Thai culture is men pay and take care of their love one so this need money is This is not apply to farang or foreigner but assume you can provide more than thai men. Thai girl dating Thai men also expected to be taken care of. It’s in the culture not bad habits.
- Being able to “pay”, “take care of” things is not all about money, but Thai girl show off with pride when they are being taken care of. They referred to as “lucky” and “smart” while the one that never asked for anything condemned by friends and family as “cheap”. They are being valued by social expectation
- Unfortunately, it becomes a fashion and thinks this is what farang can provide.
If you love someone then this is not big of a deal. If you’re dating the wrong type of girl no matter Thai or not…it’s the money for honey, so you can’t complaint.
This music video parody is very funny but remember this song is dedicate to pattaya girl
Parody pattaya music video “Hello sexy man, I love you”
http://www.bangkokgirls.net/musicvideo.php?vid=e8ef7de81
and Pattaya Casablanca music video
http://www.bangkokgirls.net/musicvideo.php?vid=015102e3c
Small case debate about dating online
Small case debate about dating online
Many people against dating online and we saw that on TV in many countries issue;
- How you date someone in the cable or wireless?
- Why aren’t you dating someone real instead of the monitor!
- He could be a serial killer on the other line.
- That could be her fake photo and she could be a guy scamming you for money.
- And so on.
Yes, internet dating has some limitation but the prospect of reaching everywhere in every country is a new concept and thanks to the World Wide Web. Technology from US military or CIA since the ’60 and then released to us to make website from serious news of war to adult porn to dating online.
People who not open mind about dating online is understandable. Many people use dating online hunting for their new love or mistress even before they got divorced! The real purposes of dating site are plain and simple, but millions of people use those for any purposes are uncontrollable and it’s the nature of the web.
Dating online work and I have good experiences as well as met lots of success people who dated online.
WHY? Because we already checked out or dated people we had known from friends of friends, friends at work, neighbor near your house, club and bar. Maybe even include anyone we could spot as interesting at radius near your home or workplace and supermarket already.
If any people think online dating is weird then he/she probably dating someone not too far from her supermarket driving distant, LOL. Some people like me don’t have such luxury for many people I know work directly with internet 17 hours a day or a book author, magazine editor and many career that work from home which mean limited human contact and rely more on phone, fax, email.
Sometime, someone you’re looking for simply just live in a different zip code, so thinking I have to date someone near me to make sense is obsolete.
Online dating allow you to look up zip code anyway so if you want to date someone across 8000 miles or make sure he/she will live within your area, you can do so.
It’s just another choice!
Many people against dating online and we saw that on TV in many countries issue;
- How you date someone in the cable or wireless?
- Why aren’t you dating someone real instead of the monitor!
- He could be a serial killer on the other line.
- That could be her fake photo and she could be a guy scamming you for money.
- And so on.
Yes, internet dating has some limitation but the prospect of reaching everywhere in every country is a new concept and thanks to the World Wide Web. Technology from US military or CIA since the ’60 and then released to us to make website from serious news of war to adult porn to dating online.
People who not open mind about dating online is understandable. Many people use dating online hunting for their new love or mistress even before they got divorced! The real purposes of dating site are plain and simple, but millions of people use those for any purposes are uncontrollable and it’s the nature of the web.
Dating online work and I have good experiences as well as met lots of success people who dated online.
WHY? Because we already checked out or dated people we had known from friends of friends, friends at work, neighbor near your house, club and bar. Maybe even include anyone we could spot as interesting at radius near your home or workplace and supermarket already.
If any people think online dating is weird then he/she probably dating someone not too far from her supermarket driving distant, LOL. Some people like me don’t have such luxury for many people I know work directly with internet 17 hours a day or a book author, magazine editor and many career that work from home which mean limited human contact and rely more on phone, fax, email.
Sometime, someone you’re looking for simply just live in a different zip code, so thinking I have to date someone near me to make sense is obsolete.
Online dating allow you to look up zip code anyway so if you want to date someone across 8000 miles or make sure he/she will live within your area, you can do so.
It’s just another choice!
Online dating smart or desperate?
Online dating smart or desperate? 
I know many women do not date online and because they meet so many all day and not so much online anyway.
I’m on the other hand online 17hours a day for my jobs required so online dating is something; I don’t even have to think of. It’s fit my lifestyle and time issue.
Meeting someone face to face take time to know that person through conversation and same as dating online which you can have webcam or live chat, so overall, I don’t see the disadvantage. Unless you are 8000 miles away from your date so going out for real dinner is harder and have to be very occasional in getting together.
I would say dating online is not of desperation but a lifestyle!
I’m on the other hand online 17hours a day for my jobs required so online dating is something; I don’t even have to think of. It’s fit my lifestyle and time issue.
Meeting someone face to face take time to know that person through conversation and same as dating online which you can have webcam or live chat, so overall, I don’t see the disadvantage. Unless you are 8000 miles away from your date so going out for real dinner is harder and have to be very occasional in getting together.
I would say dating online is not of desperation but a lifestyle!
Men White, black, Asian really different?
Men White, black, Asian really different?
Personally, I don’t think so and this is just my opinion. I love to date and so I used to date many men and why not since they asked me out.
I dated Thai, Malaysian, Korean-American, American, French, German, English and think pretty much men are men, LOL.
Each person has unique personality so judging men by race or ethnic for me is not ideal but only illusion concept. I can see culture differences but NOT as a person in each individual characters are unique and what’s make YOU “you” and make ME “me”.
Starting to seek the opposite sex by race or skin color is understandable and it’s called “taste” same as you may like Thai food more than Raw sushi while other find raw sushi very exotic that hot spicy food.
Open mind to someone not to your specification is better.
I was told that I’m not dark enough for Thai, look Japanese but not Japanese, look Chinese but not too Chinese and when I got tanned, I look Philippines.
This only proof people look at me or you, the way they want to think, so be yourself in any color tone.
Personally, I don’t think so and this is just my opinion. I love to date and so I used to date many men and why not since they asked me out.
I dated Thai, Malaysian, Korean-American, American, French, German, English and think pretty much men are men, LOL.
Each person has unique personality so judging men by race or ethnic for me is not ideal but only illusion concept. I can see culture differences but NOT as a person in each individual characters are unique and what’s make YOU “you” and make ME “me”.
Starting to seek the opposite sex by race or skin color is understandable and it’s called “taste” same as you may like Thai food more than Raw sushi while other find raw sushi very exotic that hot spicy food.
Open mind to someone not to your specification is better.
I was told that I’m not dark enough for Thai, look Japanese but not Japanese, look Chinese but not too Chinese and when I got tanned, I look Philippines.
This only proof people look at me or you, the way they want to think, so be yourself in any color tone.
Give out your email first hand warning and why!
Give out your email first hand warning and why!
Fact is no one could verify all members on dating site, except your “report abuse” and basic you need to protect you is “common sense”.
I normally DO NOT GIVE email to people on dating site for bad experiences;
1. Someone asked me for more face photos, I was naïve and sent it and all I got back was many emails asking me for my FOOT photos. A foot fetish guy!
2. Whining and bombing mail because I didn’t reply! I use my personal email for business, friend, and family so I don’t need email blast to me for I already have enough spam mail each day from Viagra, replica watch and MLM business daily to cope with.
3. Someone sent me obscene photos! If I want to see porn, I can rent, buy or get nice porn picture or video to turn me on NOT to GROSS me out.
4. Someone approaching from pretty women can be from anyone as well as scam 14millions dollars transfer from Nigeria which we saw for 20 years now. This trick is so old and I don’t know why they don’t come up with something new.
5. Your email is data with IP address and sent via ISP (internet service provider) and all are traceable just like your P.O.BOX at post office. I can sent you email with script code and hacked your PC, so saving a few bucks on dating site could cost you more than you think.
* This is applied to all website not just dating site.
* Online message are in TEXT (read mode) so save for you. If they want to hacked people on site, they have to hack site. It’s easier to sent you mail with spyware or virus
Saving a few bucks by giving away your email is not my advice.
You will not give a phone or home address to a stranger on the street, so why would you give your email address to a stranger, right?
Fact is no one could verify all members on dating site, except your “report abuse” and basic you need to protect you is “common sense”.
I normally DO NOT GIVE email to people on dating site for bad experiences;
1. Someone asked me for more face photos, I was naïve and sent it and all I got back was many emails asking me for my FOOT photos. A foot fetish guy!
2. Whining and bombing mail because I didn’t reply! I use my personal email for business, friend, and family so I don’t need email blast to me for I already have enough spam mail each day from Viagra, replica watch and MLM business daily to cope with.
3. Someone sent me obscene photos! If I want to see porn, I can rent, buy or get nice porn picture or video to turn me on NOT to GROSS me out.
4. Someone approaching from pretty women can be from anyone as well as scam 14millions dollars transfer from Nigeria which we saw for 20 years now. This trick is so old and I don’t know why they don’t come up with something new.
5. Your email is data with IP address and sent via ISP (internet service provider) and all are traceable just like your P.O.BOX at post office. I can sent you email with script code and hacked your PC, so saving a few bucks on dating site could cost you more than you think.
* This is applied to all website not just dating site.
* Online message are in TEXT (read mode) so save for you. If they want to hacked people on site, they have to hack site. It’s easier to sent you mail with spyware or virus
Saving a few bucks by giving away your email is not my advice.
You will not give a phone or home address to a stranger on the street, so why would you give your email address to a stranger, right?
Dowry is not selling the daughter!
Dowry is not selling the daughter!
Dowry for Thailand and many countries are a part of traditional and culture. It’s manifest social value of that family and pride. It’s not only applied to farang married a Thai but also when Thai married a Thai.
Dowry in a wedding is a display of social acceptance and announcement so bride’s family is with joy and pride that their beloved their daughter is and will be taken care of by another men (another family of her own). The value of dowry both cash and commonly gold mostly display to confirm that the couple is the best of social standing.
Dowry (money) thai called “sin-sod” mostly give to the bride for her new family saving but for some poor family, the parent can take that money because thai way of life, we have no retirement or social security for elderly. Taken away their children mean less person or no one will left to take care of them when they’re old.
Dowry (gold) thai called “thong-mun” mostly for the parents as appreciation in bringing up their daughter who is now will be your beloved wife.
Some well to do family will NOT take any dowry after display in the wedding ceremony and give them back to the wedding couple as “saving” for their new family.
So, now you know dowry does NOT mean selling their daughter but it’s mean more than that. The more you can give, then the more you are valued as a “successful man and a successful couple”. You’ll be talk of the family and relatives and pride and joy of the elderly in your wedding.
Dowry in Thailand and even India are very social hierarchy. Thailand, it’s mean a man of lower social standard can upgrade or change social status by married another class. India, on the other hand, a woman can married a higher class man from her dowry.
In the old days, with dowry system, it would be hard for a common man to being able to display wealth to marry a woman over his own class.
Dowry for western who do not understand thinking it’s selling their daughter for a price tag is long has been misunderstood.
Dowry for Thailand and many countries are a part of traditional and culture. It’s manifest social value of that family and pride. It’s not only applied to farang married a Thai but also when Thai married a Thai.
Dowry in a wedding is a display of social acceptance and announcement so bride’s family is with joy and pride that their beloved their daughter is and will be taken care of by another men (another family of her own). The value of dowry both cash and commonly gold mostly display to confirm that the couple is the best of social standing.
Dowry (money) thai called “sin-sod” mostly give to the bride for her new family saving but for some poor family, the parent can take that money because thai way of life, we have no retirement or social security for elderly. Taken away their children mean less person or no one will left to take care of them when they’re old.
Dowry (gold) thai called “thong-mun” mostly for the parents as appreciation in bringing up their daughter who is now will be your beloved wife.
Some well to do family will NOT take any dowry after display in the wedding ceremony and give them back to the wedding couple as “saving” for their new family.
So, now you know dowry does NOT mean selling their daughter but it’s mean more than that. The more you can give, then the more you are valued as a “successful man and a successful couple”. You’ll be talk of the family and relatives and pride and joy of the elderly in your wedding.
Dowry in Thailand and even India are very social hierarchy. Thailand, it’s mean a man of lower social standard can upgrade or change social status by married another class. India, on the other hand, a woman can married a higher class man from her dowry.
In the old days, with dowry system, it would be hard for a common man to being able to display wealth to marry a woman over his own class.
Dowry for western who do not understand thinking it’s selling their daughter for a price tag is long has been misunderstood.
Asian and Interracial dating and marriage
Asian and Interracial dating and marriage
I have more international friends than most people I know and so interracial dating or marriage is very common to me.
To protect those people I’m talking about so no name will be mentioned.
Malaysian girl and American man
She was being manipulated from the American man for a long time before she found her true love. She’s now married a divorced man whom Caucasian wife left him and kids for Europe. Surprisingly, she moved back to be close by after they got married.
Love will find the way.
Chinese girl and Indian man
This combination is rare but both divorced found each other because they lived close by to each other. This is a very interesting couple for she’s a sculpture and he’s an I.T. Guy. This proof that all Asian ladies not necessary looking for only white man.
Japanese girl and Indian man
He’s a handsome Indian man who met his wife in Japan and married then relocated to Thailand. He’s however, love Asian ladies, so he was dating Chinese, Japanese and occasional Thai women, lol.
Thai girl and German guy
This is common couple for German, American; English are known to fond of Asian women. He married Filipino first wife, Caucasian second wife, and she’s his third love and hope it’s the final love. She’s a small business owner in Thailand. If you think he’s another German man and Thai bar girl then this is not a story for you, lol. This is an ordinary working people who found each other.
Hong Kong girl and Mexican man
Wow, hardly see this match and they were happily married for decades then divorced. She married a Chinese guy and he married a Spanish girl. This show that interracial might not work for some people.
Philippines girl and Japanese man
This is not rare but not so common. They have 2 beautiful children and so adorable.
Thai girl and Philippines man
Happily married till he passed away, a true soul mate
Myanmar girl and Japanese man
They just having a baby, she's very young in her early 20 and he's mid 40, but they have no problem with age gap.
Thai girl and Belgium guy
Both are very good looking people and they just have a beautiful baby boy.
If you don’t start thinking you’re going to date a specific race, ethnic or nationality, then you will never know who you will find out there.
Open your heart, open your mind for someone special for you is my advice.
Good luck dating!
I have more international friends than most people I know and so interracial dating or marriage is very common to me.
To protect those people I’m talking about so no name will be mentioned.
Malaysian girl and American man
She was being manipulated from the American man for a long time before she found her true love. She’s now married a divorced man whom Caucasian wife left him and kids for Europe. Surprisingly, she moved back to be close by after they got married.
Love will find the way.
Chinese girl and Indian man
This combination is rare but both divorced found each other because they lived close by to each other. This is a very interesting couple for she’s a sculpture and he’s an I.T. Guy. This proof that all Asian ladies not necessary looking for only white man.
Japanese girl and Indian man
He’s a handsome Indian man who met his wife in Japan and married then relocated to Thailand. He’s however, love Asian ladies, so he was dating Chinese, Japanese and occasional Thai women, lol.
Thai girl and German guy
This is common couple for German, American; English are known to fond of Asian women. He married Filipino first wife, Caucasian second wife, and she’s his third love and hope it’s the final love. She’s a small business owner in Thailand. If you think he’s another German man and Thai bar girl then this is not a story for you, lol. This is an ordinary working people who found each other.
Hong Kong girl and Mexican man
Wow, hardly see this match and they were happily married for decades then divorced. She married a Chinese guy and he married a Spanish girl. This show that interracial might not work for some people.
Philippines girl and Japanese man
This is not rare but not so common. They have 2 beautiful children and so adorable.
Thai girl and Philippines man
Happily married till he passed away, a true soul mate
Myanmar girl and Japanese man
They just having a baby, she's very young in her early 20 and he's mid 40, but they have no problem with age gap.
Thai girl and Belgium guy
Both are very good looking people and they just have a beautiful baby boy.
If you don’t start thinking you’re going to date a specific race, ethnic or nationality, then you will never know who you will find out there.
Open your heart, open your mind for someone special for you is my advice.
Good luck dating!
Affection hugging kissing in public taboo THAI!
Affection hugging kissing in public taboo THAI!
It’s not a crime to have display public affection in Thailand but it’s depend on where and what you do. Holding hand was taboo decades ago even among Thai men and women but with modern western influences, you now see young Thai holding hands in public.
Some sector of city such as soi cowboy, patpong, or pattaya city commonly see bar girl, gogo girl holding hands with foreigners which might give you the “OK” signal. But those area are only 3 little city in Thailand. Beside airport welcome hug, goodbye hug, minimized public affection is advised.
Affection is a personal freedom, so no one can stop you. Too much display your love in public could only caused people to look at you and your one a bit down.
I have many girlfriends who will not date “farang” or “Caucasian” for fear of being looked at as “hooker” and they all educated master degree thai lady.
Love has no boundary, so the one master degree who fear to hold hands with her farang boyfriend is now happily married.
Public affection is not a crime and it’s all up to you
It’s not a crime to have display public affection in Thailand but it’s depend on where and what you do. Holding hand was taboo decades ago even among Thai men and women but with modern western influences, you now see young Thai holding hands in public.
Some sector of city such as soi cowboy, patpong, or pattaya city commonly see bar girl, gogo girl holding hands with foreigners which might give you the “OK” signal. But those area are only 3 little city in Thailand. Beside airport welcome hug, goodbye hug, minimized public affection is advised.
Affection is a personal freedom, so no one can stop you. Too much display your love in public could only caused people to look at you and your one a bit down.
I have many girlfriends who will not date “farang” or “Caucasian” for fear of being looked at as “hooker” and they all educated master degree thai lady.
Love has no boundary, so the one master degree who fear to hold hands with her farang boyfriend is now happily married.
Public affection is not a crime and it’s all up to you
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