Dating, Love and Commercialization!

Dating, Love and Commercialization!

Time changes, vocabulary changes, but we simply changes “please Mr. Postman” to “you’ve got mail”. All and all, we still can sing oldie song like “can’t buy my love by the Beatles” even some people prefer to sing “What love got to do with it by Tina Turner”.

I’m one of those people who are in dating for romance. I still love flirting, dinner and slowly getting to know someone and have those special feelings.

Asian or Russian girls dating a white man becomes so fashionable in some small area that people might assume, it’s the trend of the whole country which is not true. Many things I heard but I’m not sure neither could verify that it’s a true story or not. The frightening part for me is not what they did but it’s sound so commercialized, catalog brides sound like a shopping cart session in amazon.com instead of a dating web friendly community.

Where all the romances go?

Are we speed dating and no longer need passion and falling in love?
Love on the internet super highway not necessary mean, you need to run on a fast track, and a short cut! People pretty or not, handsome or not, we all get old and sex could be dull, plain as well as routine (try the 7 years itches, lol).
Romance, good feeling you cherish will last longer. You will hold on to that loving feeling of “loving someone” and “falling in love”, that feelings that give you that silly grin when you alone. The good mood that all your friends think you’re on drugs, lol.

Bride by mail for me is ok, acceptable but I personally will NOT want to be a bride by mail or being catalog for someone to choose me. Flirting online is the same as flirting in life and lacking of “choices” is not what I would bargain for. Dating community gives you that choices and it’s everyone choices not just yours’ to choose.

Dating online should NOT be about migration because a girl wants a permit to live in another country and also should not be that a man can provide such and such in trade of a younger desperate woman. All is ok though, if there’s a mutual feeling and some couple just get all the luck. I met many couples that actually make it work like magic and live happily ever after.

Just have it all and don’t leave out the romance. Dating online should be about reaching out and convenient. Dating site categorized people by age, race, location, zip code, and country already and that’s what database does, but don’t let yourself being catalog like merchandises.

Your choice!
What’s the hurry?
No one too old to date!